Always assume positive intent

Whatever anybody says or does, assume positive intent. You will be amazed at how your whole approach to a person or problem becomes very different. When you assume negative intent, you’re angry. If you take away that anger and assume positive intent, you will be amazed.

What is magic?

There is nothing magic about magic. The magician merely understands something simple which doesn’t appear to be simple or natural to the untrained audience. Once you learn how to hold a card while making your hand look empty, you only need practice before you, too, can “do magic.” Like a foreign language—once you learn it, it stops sounding like gibberish.”

Jeffrey E. F. Friedl — Mastering Regular Expressions: Understand Your Data and Be More Productive — Source: Link.